Not many realize the importance of having a common love language with your partner. Often having different understandings and understandings about love can really give you distance and cause misunderstandings so that there is no common ground that you can hold on to.

For example, you like to be complimented and given gifts while he doesn't like to show love through words and often ignores important days like birthdays and wedding anniversaries. When you have different thoughts about love, it's easy to feel like this relationship is completely devoid of romance.

2. Stagnant relationship

You are experiencing a stagnant phase in your love relationship. There is no spontaneity or trying new things to make love more exciting. It could be that you have experienced life's tests which then made you take life more seriously. Undertaking the same routine every day will also inevitably lead to boredom, making it easier to feel stagnant and bland in a love relationship.

3. Pent-up anger or annoyance

The presence of anger that is held or not expressed towards this partner will eventually make it easier for you to criticize and see the bad things of your partner than the good and the advantages. In your eyes, he looks more annoying than fun.